Barbara then took on the role of photographer. So we often got together, sometimes at a person's home and other times at leather bars. The guys also made it clear that we had an open invitation. We left the party both very pleased and aroused and had some fantastic sex when we got home. I knew that the host fingered her pussy midway through the spanking, soaking wet, bringing her orgasm.
I enjoyed watching her little bottom turn red, and despite the squeals, she enjoyed it. Not to be put off, he declared, "Well then, you should get your little bottom spanked."īarbara does not like being spanked, but she was a good sport and went over his lap. The host suggested it would only be fair since she watched me get fucked that I should watch her get fucked, paraphrasing the other guy, "A butt is gender-neutral."īarbara respectively declined his offer. Barbara wanted to watch me get fucked and treated to a gang bang. Several more guys were in line when he finished, all with erections. She made no secret of how much it turned her on.
It hurt at first, but the pain quickly waned, and I enjoyed it, knowing Barbara was watching. I was bent over a table and paddled again, the guy proclaiming, "A red butt is a perfect foreplay." I told him it had been a long time since I had a cock in my butt, so he used his finger to loosen me up, which eventually escalated to three fingers. They told me that was the only way it would happen. Given that this was a time when HIV was rampant, I said no bareback. She said that would please her to no end. He laughed and said, "Hey man, a mouth is gender-neutral."Įventually, one of the men asked Barbara if she would like to see me take it up the butt. Finally, I asked one of the men how he felt about having a woman give him a blow job. She also was turned on when one of the guys sucked my cock, and she reciprocated by sucking a few herself. There was no shortage of volunteers, and soon, I had a very red butt and a hard dripping cock. One side effect of the drug is it causes people to get talkative.īarbara told everybody that I love getting spanked by men and how much that would turn her on to see me spanked. Most everybody who partied did ecstasy because it was still legal. It wasn't very long before the guys reciprocated and relieved her of her G string. Barbara took corrective action, and with a snip of the scissors, I got an instant erection. Many of the guys at the party were also wearing chaps and did not bother with a G string. She dressed in leather, and I wore the chaps with nothing under them except a G string. We had an invitation to a gay Halloween party. Halloween was approaching, and Barbara bought me a pair of black leather chaps. I was concerned that Barbara might be disgusted, but she said my accounts caused her to be sexual arousal, much to my delight. I told her that I had been on the receiving of a paddle numerous times.Īlong with some pot, my statement opened the door to disclose some of my early experiences. She was adorable.Įarly in our relationship, one of her female friends gave her a paddle as a gag gift with the suggestion that she should use it should I get out of line. It helped that she enjoyed dressing and leather, which usually consisted of a harness on top, a G string, bare bottom, thigh-high leather boots, and a leather police hat. So we would often go with him to leather bars, and Barbara was accepted and became a de facto mascot of the guys. We had a gay friend who owned a BDSM shop. We partied and socialized in two worlds, straight and gay, specifically the gay leather scene, where most of the provocative and exciting play took place. Barbara's favorite saying was a blowjob is like a handshake, and during our partying, she shook a fair number of hands. She beat Bill Clinton to the punch, declaring that oral sex was not sex. While we did not swing, Barbara was no prude. Most of our married life was ordinary and mundane. It is essential to understand the activities in this account took place over the years. In addition, I was into photography and enjoyed taking photos of her in her provocative outfits in public settings. She enjoyed the attention and shocked looks, and I truly enjoyed it, and I got off on that. Barbara enjoyed dressing provocatively, often wearing sheer outfits with nothing under it or short skirts with no panties when she danced, which was one of her loves. Over the years, we shared some enjoyable and kinky play but always remained true to one another. In addition, she had a warm and playful personality that made men and women fall in love with her. Being of Sicilian descent, she had dark hair, sparkling brown eyes, a gorgeous smile, and for me, a perfect figure, slender 32A- 22-32. She was a 5'1", 102-pound petite package of feminine perfection. I consider myself a lucky man to have Barbara as my wife.